People Are Not Always What They Seem
People Are Not Always What They Seem
It’s strange how life constantly proves me wrong about people. The ones I trust the most often end up disappointing me, and the ones I ignore sometimes turn out to be the kindest souls. Whoever I think is good, they become worst. And whoever I think is bad, they turn out to be good. It’s almost like life enjoys playing this game with me.
We all do it judge people too quickly. We meet someone, observe a few things about them, and instantly form an opinion. "Oh, they seem nice!" or "They are so rude!" And once that impression settles in our mind, we rarely question it. But the truth is, people are not always what they seem at first glance.
I used to think I was good at understanding people. But today, I realized that I had been completely wrong about someone. For the longest time, I thought they were selfish, uninterested, and a little arrogant. I never made an effort to look beyond that image. And then, life did something unexpected I had to spend some days with them and main nahi bata rahi hoon kya hua han oske bad (I'm not telling you what happened after that).
itana kahoongee yah kisee ko agar jaana ho to usake saath safar karen taaki aage aapako suffer na karana pade..(I will just say that if anyone wants to go then they should travel with them, So that you don't have to suffer further..)
Spending time with someone is the only way to know who they truly are. When you see them in different situations, how they react to problems, how they talk to strangers, how they handle pressure that's when their real nature comes out and know many more things like me....
On the other hand, there have been people I once thought were amazing friends who were warm, kind, and made me feel like I had found something real. But time peeled away their masks. In the end, they didn’t just leave they left behind wounds, disappointments, and a bitterness that took me a long time to heal from. It made me question my own judgment was I too blind, too trusting, or just unlucky?
Because of experiences like these, I find it difficult to trust people easily now, I am not able to make friends easily. I am not able to talk to anyone easily because of this I have had to face many problems not just my personal life but In my professional life as well. And I know I’m not alone in this. Anyone who has been through such betrayals knows how hard it is to open up again. We hesitate, fearing that we’ll misjudge someone once more. We build walls, not because we don’t want new connections, but because we don’t want to go through the same pain again.
Yet, life is full of surprises. Like... surprises...surprises....and surprises...
There were people I had no expectations from no bond, no reason to believe they would matter to me. And yet, they have given me so much love, kindness, understanding, and a connection I never saw coming. So much that I feel like I can never repay them. And I'm blessed to have them in my life.
But maybe that’s the beauty of it all. Maybe we’re not supposed to figure people out at first glance. Maybe life introduces us to the wrong people so that when the right ones come along, we truly appreciate them. Maybe every person, whether they stay or leave, good or bad, is just another chapter in our story some teaching us patience, some showing us what love and kindness really look like, and some reminding us of what we should never settle for. And maybe, just maybe, that’s enough.
It’s strange how life constantly proves me wrong about people. The ones I trust the most often end up disappointing me, and the ones I ignore sometimes turn out to be the kindest souls. Whoever I think is good, they become worst. And whoever I think is bad, they turn out to be good. It’s almost like life enjoys playing this game with me.
We all do it judge people too quickly. We meet someone, observe a few things about them, and instantly form an opinion. "Oh, they seem nice!" or "They are so rude!" And once that impression settles in our mind, we rarely question it. But the truth is, people are not always what they seem at first glance.
I used to think I was good at understanding people. But today, I realized that I had been completely wrong about someone. For the longest time, I thought they were selfish, uninterested, and a little arrogant. I never made an effort to look beyond that image. And then, life did something unexpected I had to spend some days with them and main nahi bata rahi hoon kya hua han oske bad (I'm not telling you what happened after that).
itana kahoongee yah kisee ko agar jaana ho to usake saath safar karen taaki aage aapako suffer na karana pade..(I will just say that if anyone wants to go then they should travel with them, So that you don't have to suffer further..)
Spending time with someone is the only way to know who they truly are. When you see them in different situations, how they react to problems, how they talk to strangers, how they handle pressure that's when their real nature comes out and know many more things like me....
On the other hand, there have been people I once thought were amazing friends who were warm, kind, and made me feel like I had found something real. But time peeled away their masks. In the end, they didn’t just leave they left behind wounds, disappointments, and a bitterness that took me a long time to heal from. It made me question my own judgment was I too blind, too trusting, or just unlucky?
Because of experiences like these, I find it difficult to trust people easily now, I am not able to make friends easily. I am not able to talk to anyone easily because of this I have had to face many problems not just my personal life but In my professional life as well. And I know I’m not alone in this. Anyone who has been through such betrayals knows how hard it is to open up again. We hesitate, fearing that we’ll misjudge someone once more. We build walls, not because we don’t want new connections, but because we don’t want to go through the same pain again.
Yet, life is full of surprises. Like... surprises...surprises....and surprises...
There were people I had no expectations from no bond, no reason to believe they would matter to me. And yet, they have given me so much love, kindness, understanding, and a connection I never saw coming. So much that I feel like I can never repay them. And I'm blessed to have them in my life.
But maybe that’s the beauty of it all. Maybe we’re not supposed to figure people out at first glance. Maybe life introduces us to the wrong people so that when the right ones come along, we truly appreciate them. Maybe every person, whether they stay or leave, good or bad, is just another chapter in our story some teaching us patience, some showing us what love and kindness really look like, and some reminding us of what we should never settle for. And maybe, just maybe, that’s enough.
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Keep writing. Bless you