Life Didn’t Turn Out the Way We Planned And That’s Okay
Life Didn’t Turn Out the Way We Planned And That’s Okay We all start somewhere with a plan. Not always written down not always spoken out loud but quietly sitting in our heads. A version of life that feels safe Predictable Controlled By this age this will happen. By that year I’ll be there. With these people feeling this way and then life happens. Not dramatically all at once but slowly subtly in missed timings, changed priorities unanswered efforts unexpected detours. One day you wake up and realise you are living a life you never exactly imagined. Not worse. Just… different. At first, it feels uncomfortable. Almost like wearing someone else’s shoes. You keep adjusting hoping they’ll start fitting better. You question yourself. You wonder where you went wrong. You replay old decisions in your head like paused scenes from a movie that never got an ending. There’s a quiet grief in that realisation. Grief for the life you thought you’d have. For the version of yourself who believed thing...
